The context for employing the qualities of a Spiritual Companion are mainly applicable for recurring sessions; when you are invested in an ongoing set of appointments to address any personal or Spiritual area. Along with your typical psychic intuitive reading, if you choose, we also interweave what I may bring as a "Spiritual Companion" before and after the intuitive reading for further continuity and coherence. Please be assured that I do not impose my beliefs onto your session. I practice this with vigilance. All backgrounds, faiths, non-spiritual, other, are entirely welcome and will find a home here.
"A Portrait of a Spiritual Director" This portrait translates into my service for you as an intuitive-psychic-medium-clairvoyant-Spiritual counselor in the context of ongoing, or regular sessions. [An excerpt from: https://www.sdiworld.org/media/portrait-spiritual-directorcompanion.] "Spiritual directors or companions support the unique spiritual journey of every individual. They are welcoming and present with those they companion, listening and responding without being judgmental. They are contemplative and honor silence as a spiritual practice. They are intuitive spiritual friends — accountable and compassionate, hospitable and open, loving yet independent.
Spiritual direction or companionship inspires people to experience authenticity in their lives as they connect with and explore the ground of all being, that deepest of truths which is beyond life and death and goes by many names, including God, and no name at all. Inclusive ~ Genuine ~ Listening ~ Accepting ~ Contemplative ~ Wise
Abilities and Gifts A spiritual companion is called
The natural gifts of a spiritual director may include: discernment; guiding others in prayer and silence; ability to note and draw attention to the significant insights and sensed movements arising in the directee; capacity for depth and breadth; acknowledgement of spiritual freedom; grounding in stability; interpersonal rapport; the ability to meet a directee where they are and hold a safe space for them and their spiritual exploration.
Others recognize the director’s inherent qualities, such as: accountability, wisdom; gentleness; compassion; maturity; caring; prayerfulness; traveling a recognizable spiritual journey; personal integration; openness to self, others and the transcendent. A spiritual director is sought out and confirmed by others.
Honors contemplative connection: Directors seek to connect others with the deepest of truths; to support the spiritual transformation of self, others and the world; to embrace holism by integrating mind, body, will and spirit.
Skills and Knowledge A spiritual director has training or experience
Listens deeply: noticing, tracking, distinguishing, prioritizing, paraphrasing, waiting, probing, challenging and disclosing—always to serve the directee and the spiritual direction relationship.
Maintains an inner life practice: including prayer or other contemplative practice, reflection, deepening self-awareness, and familiarity with personal gifts, limitations, and wounds, recognizing that all these affect the spiritual direction relationship.
Honors healthy interpersonal boundaries: understanding when and how to make appropriate referrals; acknowledging assumptions and personal biases and recognizing when those get in the way of the spiritual direction and recognizes and avoids dual relationships.
Distinguishes between psychology and spirituality and recognizes the limits of personal knowledge and experience which might indicate the need to refer to another professional.
Recognizes defaults and limitations inherent in the nature of world-views when applied to one's self, others, and this service. Seeks to enlarge the scope; expand the horizons in discerning ways.
Recognizes varied states in directees, including mental, emotional, physical, spiritual states; noticing shifts in spiritual movements, affective moods, cognitive states; naming personal triggers, hooks, wounds.
Considers ongoing learning part of the calling, including study of various faith or wisdom traditions and orientations, sacred texts, and exemplars of faith; a spiritual director is open to insights from other professional disciplines, and the dynamics in psycho-socio-cultural integration.
Accountability and Integrity A spiritual companion is authentic
Attends regular spiritual direction for self
Receives supervision by peers and teachers—and is responsible for her or his work through that direct supervision
Shows respect for the agency of directees—that is, the capacity of individuals to act independently and make their own free choices
Follows universal ethical guidelines, summarized as “Do no harm”
Finds support and is accountable in a community setting.
Inspires others to explore and embrace: trustworthiness; vulnerability; openness; courage; faith; integrity; transformation
Integrates values into daily life, such as: nonjudgment, inclusion, contemplation, compassion and service for the common good
Terms of Reverence Spiritual directors may name the deepest of truths in diverse ways. They also honor the names that others revere. Here are some of those terms of reverence: Universe, God, Lord, Allah, YHWH, Great Spirit, Higher Power, Mystery, Sunyata, Brahman, Tao, Divine, Sacred, Holy, Almighty, Ultimate, the Beyond, Intimate, Abba, Nirvana, Wisdom, Source, Vishnu, Creator, Enlightenment, Interconnection, Holy One, All. A spiritual director may identify by many different names: Director, Companion, Elder, Guide, Teacher, Master, Friend, Anam Cara, Guru, Mashpia, Murshid."